To have a visit with my future self or my past self for that matter. What would I tell my past self?
Stop worrying about your weight, looks, clothes, etc.
Be where you are and be happy about it.
Play with abandon.
Don’t stress over the crumbs so much.
Take care of yourself.
Love and listen.
Don’t be afraid.
All the things that we look back and regret or just wish to change. Though I don’t feel like I have many regrets, my only one is not going to Europe during college, but those little moments when you just think, “Why did I do that/say that/think that?” Did it really matter? Did it change my life? Well, future self.
Smile and laugh, many times in the day. Even if you have to make a conscious effort to remember to do it!
Snuggle and relax with the family.
Stop having an agenda so often.
Go skydiving. Overcome your biggest fear!
Use all your lotion, perfume, make up.
Use your time wisely.
Grow some plants and let them live in your house.
Make that soufflé already!
And in the meantime, don’t regret things. Don’t stress about the future or the past or the present. Just be and be what you need and want to be. Not what someone else thinks you should be. Just be.
Me, last summer in my hometown of Las Vegas. I was watching my kids chase geese and my friend took this picture.